After a long one month leave, finally my maid said SHE'S NOT COMING BACK. OMG !!! I juz burnt my 8 days current leave last year juz to take care of d kids while my maid enjoy her balik kampung trip. Althou I've a strong feeling she's not coming back, I try to be positive she's not like other maids in my neighbourhood who did not turn up after their balik kampung. Ermmm.. seems, all Indons are the same.
Life is a bit haywire right now.. with me working & managing the house. Of course dear darling do lend his hands to do some house chores, but still not enuf. Romeo is taking charge of laundry of the day, supervising his brothers in between their KAFA & secondary school. Baby continues at nursery after her kindy session. Baby has changed a lot recently, she refuse to go to school in the morning.. She will cry and cry, saying she didnt like to stay at the nursery. Lucky, one of my neighbour agreed to look after her starting this Feb.
Thou it really hectic, M glad I got my house back.. my kitchen, my kids.. M still sourcing how to simplify doing house chores, so that I could have more time to spent with dear darling & the kids and my hobbies.
Friday, January 25, 2008
Tuesday, January 22, 2008
M Penalized !!!
By who..??? Who else...??? By 'beloved' boss laa..
Last year end and this early year, wuz among d saddest moment to me in my employment history. My bonus was slashed for 0.75 months from what I usually get yearly. Come to 2008 increment, I got 3.6% increment compared to the average in my dept - 4.7%
So sad.. and the more I want to move out !!
Last year end and this early year, wuz among d saddest moment to me in my employment history. My bonus was slashed for 0.75 months from what I usually get yearly. Come to 2008 increment, I got 3.6% increment compared to the average in my dept - 4.7%
So sad.. and the more I want to move out !!
Thursday, January 17, 2008
Why They Didn't Consider My Applications
Urgghhhhhhhhhhh... it's been months when I aggressively submiting my resume to many companies. Out of 179 applications I submitted, I've attended 6 interviews and DID NOT received any offer yet. Why.. why.. why..????
I tried to analyze back my resume & application letters, is there something wrong some where. Izzit my grammar, izzit my qualifications not strong enuf.. izzit my expected salary too high..?? A friend commented that my photo in the resume, looks very relax - not professional enuf. Doesn't reflect a pro Exec Secretary. Ermm.. probably !
After my recent interview, I think I know one of the reason why I did not get any offer yet. M lack of experience ! No doubt I been in this secretarial line for almost 16 years, but I have only 11 years experience reporting to HOD, not a top management. Other than that, the salary that I requested is quite high (izzit it..???). To me it's fair.. I juz ask for an additional rm200 from my existing salary. At one thought, it may not worth. For the additional rm200, I may get more tasks given on top of my head compared from what M doing right now.
But.. I need to make a move... YESS, I need to get a fresh air to breathe.... HELPPP !!!!!
Phlox - A Journey
I tried to analyze back my resume & application letters, is there something wrong some where. Izzit my grammar, izzit my qualifications not strong enuf.. izzit my expected salary too high..?? A friend commented that my photo in the resume, looks very relax - not professional enuf. Doesn't reflect a pro Exec Secretary. Ermm.. probably !
After my recent interview, I think I know one of the reason why I did not get any offer yet. M lack of experience ! No doubt I been in this secretarial line for almost 16 years, but I have only 11 years experience reporting to HOD, not a top management. Other than that, the salary that I requested is quite high (izzit it..???). To me it's fair.. I juz ask for an additional rm200 from my existing salary. At one thought, it may not worth. For the additional rm200, I may get more tasks given on top of my head compared from what M doing right now.
But.. I need to make a move... YESS, I need to get a fresh air to breathe.... HELPPP !!!!!
Phlox - A Journey
Thursday, August 02, 2007
Tribute to Smoothy
I wuz at Mid Valley yesterday, attending a reunion with my former classmates when my son called me. He said he saw our cat, Smoothy wuz run over by school van in front their school. At first, I thought he might be mistaken Smoothy with other cat. Until I reached home in the evening, my daughther has confirmed about Smoothy sudden demise. For a second, I wuz speechless and refused to say anything about Smoothy. But the true facts, I feel really sad that her life ended in such a tragic accident.
Before I went to sleep last nite, I saw my other cat - Nemo wuz sitting quietly at the sofa. I brought him to my sons' room where he has his fav spot. Later when I went to check on my daughters, I felt that he bite my toe. I cuddle him and saw his sad face. I looked into his eyes, and I saw his sorrows. I think he know about Smoothy's death. They were closed before I left Smoothy at my children's school. I tried to console Nemo, but at the end M the one who shed tears for the thought that if Smoothy still with us, she's still breathing.
To Smoothy, I regret for what I've done to you. I feel sorry and really sad you have to endure such pain - being run over by a van. I know, by now you will be well taken care up there. Smoothy.. life isn't smooth like your name.. but now you've gone smoothly..
Smoothy, I LOVE YOU and gonna MISS you...
p/s : This is my 1st time crying for the death of my cat. I didn't feel this sad, when my beloved cat - Tutu gone missing last year.
Before I went to sleep last nite, I saw my other cat - Nemo wuz sitting quietly at the sofa. I brought him to my sons' room where he has his fav spot. Later when I went to check on my daughters, I felt that he bite my toe. I cuddle him and saw his sad face. I looked into his eyes, and I saw his sorrows. I think he know about Smoothy's death. They were closed before I left Smoothy at my children's school. I tried to console Nemo, but at the end M the one who shed tears for the thought that if Smoothy still with us, she's still breathing.
To Smoothy, I regret for what I've done to you. I feel sorry and really sad you have to endure such pain - being run over by a van. I know, by now you will be well taken care up there. Smoothy.. life isn't smooth like your name.. but now you've gone smoothly..
Smoothy, I LOVE YOU and gonna MISS you...
p/s : This is my 1st time crying for the death of my cat. I didn't feel this sad, when my beloved cat - Tutu gone missing last year.
Sunday, June 03, 2007
Happy Birthday Gal !!!
My first birthday wish this year came from my younger sis, thanks sis.. u alwayz there during my happy & sad moments. Later, other smses & phone calls from frenz & family. Been waiting for mom & dad to call me, which they've never failed so far. Didnt want to call them, as I knew I will alwayz cry whenver they wish me happy birthday. And I did again when they called later in the evening. Dunno why, my heart really sank every time dad wish me happy birthday, happiness and some advices. Dear Mom & Dad, I really missed you.
We brought the kids to Malacca Zoo today, and they really had fun although they're tired after 2 hours walk. Had lunch and head back to our castle.. We went to the A Famosa Waterpark a day b4, and as usual the kids love the water.
I didnt remind them of my birthday, but my eldest finally got to know after reading smses from my frenz. He tolds his siblings and they ask whether I want any birthday kids. It's ok dear kids, mama is fine without any cakes and candles. Having you is more than enuf.
~ Phlox, A Journey
until she stops somwhere...
We brought the kids to Malacca Zoo today, and they really had fun although they're tired after 2 hours walk. Had lunch and head back to our castle.. We went to the A Famosa Waterpark a day b4, and as usual the kids love the water.
I didnt remind them of my birthday, but my eldest finally got to know after reading smses from my frenz. He tolds his siblings and they ask whether I want any birthday kids. It's ok dear kids, mama is fine without any cakes and candles. Having you is more than enuf.
~ Phlox, A Journey
until she stops somwhere...
Monday, April 02, 2007
How to be a Better Husband/Boyfriend
I found this among of my note papers near my puter.. I normally will jots down some websites, quotes & tips while browsing. I can't really remember from which website that I extract this article, these are the tips given :
- Be spontaneous (and I love surprises too.. )
- Spot small changes on her, e.g. highlight on the hair, new earrings, or she has loose some weight (oohh.. I wud appreciate that)
- Complement her evry now & then (I love complement too..)
- Challenge her to motivate for the better (errkk.. I hate d challenge !!)
- Remind her of her beauty or specialty by sending cards, emails or little note (oohhh.. that's sweet !!)
~ Phlox A Journey, until she stops somwhere...
Friday, March 30, 2007
Get to Know Geminian..
The Gemini Woman
May 21 - June 21
The Gemini is bright and aware. Like speedy Mercury, she seems to know exactly what is going on and where things are at all times. She enjoys helping others, and takes pride in her many abilities. Like a magician, she can juggle multiple tasks with ease, and is known for her skill and dexterity. She may be a writer, humorist, politician, handyperson, electrician, teacher, reporter or office worker. Gemini is practical, yet flighty. She needs movement, communication and travel lest she become bored.
The Gemini is a kind of dual soul. She can possess two opposing thoughts simultaneously, and reconcile them perfectly in her mind. She often voices different ideas and opinions and seems to be changing her mind, but in reality she is merely sharing her musings and decision making processes. To the ever positive thinking Gemini, every option has its advantage, and choices can take time.
Gemini has the unique ability to see both sides of any situation, and this makes her an excellent mediator or debater. She has a great understanding and appreciation for human nature. She loves people and values friendship, and so may actually go in two or more directions at once in order to satisfy everyone. If anyone can pull it off, it's Gemini. She is a natural politician.
In love, the Gemini's partner must be able to keep her entertained. She needs conversation, fun, changes and mental stimulation. She can be counted on to be clever, insightful, funny, witty and always a helpful friend.
How to Treat Your Gemini
Your Gemini is a gem, a treasure trove of knowledge, wit and bouncy friendship. The local happenings are a must to know. How to go about doing almost anything? Just ask your two-for-the-price-of-one friend! Quicksilver in his veins, wings on her shoulders, the world moves at jet speed for your Gemini, and you must be able to think and react quickly if you want to keep up!
Like all Air signs, your Mercurial man or maiden thrives on information. Emotional matters may be viewed philosophically, logically or with refreshing humor. You won't find him sulking in a corner... everything must be discussed... hiding won't do! Your Gemini is especially attuned with friendship, and may seek many viewpoints and opinions from a multitude of acquaintances. He can bend with the wind - so do have patience.
You may be confused at times when your Gemini changes her mind, makes multiple plans or takes off suddenly. Gemini wants to befriend nearly everyone, and may sometimes even tell a little white lie in order to maintain good feelings. So, here are some pointers for keeping your sanity...
Feed your Gemini with the joy of your laughter. Talk to your Gemini - be open. Pull him back to you when he strays to other friends. Call him on his tiny little deceptions. Allow your Gemini to have other friendships, within reason. Be amazed and in awe of his knowledge!
Enjoy the fun and friendship your Gemini has to offer. Treat her with genuine love and respect. Take joy in her wit and spare-of-the-moment activities. You will be richly rewarded with the fruits of her mental musings, fun times, delicious humor, silliness and true, true friendship.
The Inner-self
Adaptability is the keynote of this Sign. Gemini individuals are not only versatile, but are quick to grasp situations and will act on the spur of the moment, often very effectively. The essence of the Gemini character is expressed in joy, yet there can be moods of dark despair. This Sign is something akin to a house divided against itself, with the twin stars of the ruling constellation endowing the Gemini native with a most perplexing duality, although cases of true split personality are comparatively rare among subjects who fall under the jurisdiction of this Sign. Nonetheless, the Gemini mind does run to contradictions and when Gemini individuals go to such extremes, they manage to make their policy sound plausible (at least to their own satisfaction). Gemini natives are imaginative, generous and affectionate, but their frequent desire for change often makes them dissatisfied with existing conditions. Friends of those born under this influence of this Sign love the cheerfulness, quick wit and lively mind inherent in the Gemini make-up, but are often puzzled by the displays of withdrawal which are also a feature of this Zodiac Sign.
Once the urge toward any given project has lessened or the project itself seems outworn, Gemini individuals will drop it for something more novel or more intriguing. These people are popular and quick to acquire new skills but, as a result, are sometimes content with superficial knowledge and halfway results. They are, nevertheless, clever individuals and can easily cover or excuse their faults without ever intending to correct them. There is a natural talent in Gemini natives for driving a good bargain and while they may be primarily looking out for themselves, they are usually very helpful to others, often giving them ideas and offering them opportunities. In short, due to an insatiable urge to invade new territory, the Gemini individual tends to be free with what he or she does not need or want and may frequently neglect or reject much that could be useful and/or valuable.
Experience means little or nothing to Gemini subjects. They feel sure of themselves without it and on occasion, achievement of ambition may be a prelude to disappointment. Thus, Gemini individuals should use will power to curb the inherent scattering of activity, or it will tell upon them and deny them the contentment that should reward their efforts. If those who fall under the jurisdiction of Gemini are able to find the right niche and concentrate upon that goal, then they are more likely to find happiness. However, Gemini natives are prone to being unconventional and skeptical, possessing the habit of blowing hot and then cold. The friendly attitude of such people may shift to mistrust if problems are encountered, and their keen foresight may suffer through over-enthusiasm, which could lead to allowing real opportunities to languish while they pursue something else. Above all, Gemini natives should never waste what has been gained, for each success is pictured as a building block to something bigger and often, the obstacles that could ruin such hopes are overlooked. In short, those governed by Gemini should make the most of it while they can and remember that alhough they have been born under two lucky stars (instead of just one, like most others), this double luck can run out and result in nothing.
Mercury (Gemini's ruling planet) makes the Gemini personality dominate the looks of such individuals and they possess a fundamental attraction that is sometimes translated as personality, sometimes sex-appeal and sometimes leadership. Mercury is also responsible for Gemini's love of travel...new places, new people and new scenes all appeal to the Gemini individual as much as do new ideas. Gemini subjects receive stimulation from the world around them...rather like a butterfly which reaches out its sensitive antennae. This is transposed by Gemini (for the benefit of others less fortunate) into words, descriptions and joyful gossip. However, it is important for Gemini individuals to be in touch with those who understand them. If not, then there is a tendency to wilt and undergo an intellectual suffering that few will be able to fully comprehend. Gemini's reach for the perfect human relationship will probably mean that such an individual is constantly disappointed until he or she realizes that there truly is no such thing as a "perfect relationship." Indeed, it may be Gemini's secret fear that he or she will never find a true "soul-mate" for life.
Perhaps the worst fault of a Gemini individual is to shirk responsibility. There is a tendency here to want everything to go smoothly and according to plan without any personal effort. The emotions of Gemini natives can lead to exhaustion and worry without actually getting on with the job. The greatest Gemini talent is the effect this character has on others...and he or she must always be in contact with others. Gemini individuals need constant feedback for the good of their souls. While disappointment in the reactions of others may make Gemini natives sulk for a period of time, they do not harbor a grudge and so tend to keep their wide circle of friends. In addition, Gemini individuals usually have a very good vocabulary and an originality of expression when talking, coupled with an amusingly biased outlook on varying human situations. With regard to serious issues, however, Gemini is invariably scrupulously fair and unbiased. Those born under this Zodiac Sign should follow their twin stars by keeping the wide range of their interests alive. It is important that no stagnation be allowed to occur. It is also important for Gemini natives to curb the temptation to dissipate energy through having too many trivial interests and becoming disorganized...notes should be kept, lists should be composed and plans should be carefully laid. Unfortunately, this is often difficult for the mercurial-natured Gemini individual to accomplish.
In business, Gemini persons fit almost anywhere. They are good salesmen, promoters and often successful speculators. They do equally as well in advertising, publishing, television, transportation and other fields where they must keep up with modern trends. As teachers, writers, artists and politicians, Gemini individuals possess both the right attitude and aptitute to succeed. In business associations, Gemini tends to work well with Taurus, for persons born under that Sign of the Zodiac are usually receptive to Gemini notions and will have the stamina to see them through. The balanced nature of Libra and the straight-shooting qualities of Sagittarius make both of these Signs good business partners for those governed by Gemini. One of the strongest business combinations, however, is that of versatile Gemini and conservative Cancer since, in this instance, the latter serves strictly as a counter-balance rather than a "drag."
~ Phlox A Journey, until she stops somwhere...
May 21 - June 21
The Gemini is bright and aware. Like speedy Mercury, she seems to know exactly what is going on and where things are at all times. She enjoys helping others, and takes pride in her many abilities. Like a magician, she can juggle multiple tasks with ease, and is known for her skill and dexterity. She may be a writer, humorist, politician, handyperson, electrician, teacher, reporter or office worker. Gemini is practical, yet flighty. She needs movement, communication and travel lest she become bored.
The Gemini is a kind of dual soul. She can possess two opposing thoughts simultaneously, and reconcile them perfectly in her mind. She often voices different ideas and opinions and seems to be changing her mind, but in reality she is merely sharing her musings and decision making processes. To the ever positive thinking Gemini, every option has its advantage, and choices can take time.
Gemini has the unique ability to see both sides of any situation, and this makes her an excellent mediator or debater. She has a great understanding and appreciation for human nature. She loves people and values friendship, and so may actually go in two or more directions at once in order to satisfy everyone. If anyone can pull it off, it's Gemini. She is a natural politician.
In love, the Gemini's partner must be able to keep her entertained. She needs conversation, fun, changes and mental stimulation. She can be counted on to be clever, insightful, funny, witty and always a helpful friend.
How to Treat Your Gemini
Your Gemini is a gem, a treasure trove of knowledge, wit and bouncy friendship. The local happenings are a must to know. How to go about doing almost anything? Just ask your two-for-the-price-of-one friend! Quicksilver in his veins, wings on her shoulders, the world moves at jet speed for your Gemini, and you must be able to think and react quickly if you want to keep up!
Like all Air signs, your Mercurial man or maiden thrives on information. Emotional matters may be viewed philosophically, logically or with refreshing humor. You won't find him sulking in a corner... everything must be discussed... hiding won't do! Your Gemini is especially attuned with friendship, and may seek many viewpoints and opinions from a multitude of acquaintances. He can bend with the wind - so do have patience.
You may be confused at times when your Gemini changes her mind, makes multiple plans or takes off suddenly. Gemini wants to befriend nearly everyone, and may sometimes even tell a little white lie in order to maintain good feelings. So, here are some pointers for keeping your sanity...
Feed your Gemini with the joy of your laughter. Talk to your Gemini - be open. Pull him back to you when he strays to other friends. Call him on his tiny little deceptions. Allow your Gemini to have other friendships, within reason. Be amazed and in awe of his knowledge!
Enjoy the fun and friendship your Gemini has to offer. Treat her with genuine love and respect. Take joy in her wit and spare-of-the-moment activities. You will be richly rewarded with the fruits of her mental musings, fun times, delicious humor, silliness and true, true friendship.
The Inner-self
Adaptability is the keynote of this Sign. Gemini individuals are not only versatile, but are quick to grasp situations and will act on the spur of the moment, often very effectively. The essence of the Gemini character is expressed in joy, yet there can be moods of dark despair. This Sign is something akin to a house divided against itself, with the twin stars of the ruling constellation endowing the Gemini native with a most perplexing duality, although cases of true split personality are comparatively rare among subjects who fall under the jurisdiction of this Sign. Nonetheless, the Gemini mind does run to contradictions and when Gemini individuals go to such extremes, they manage to make their policy sound plausible (at least to their own satisfaction). Gemini natives are imaginative, generous and affectionate, but their frequent desire for change often makes them dissatisfied with existing conditions. Friends of those born under this influence of this Sign love the cheerfulness, quick wit and lively mind inherent in the Gemini make-up, but are often puzzled by the displays of withdrawal which are also a feature of this Zodiac Sign.
Once the urge toward any given project has lessened or the project itself seems outworn, Gemini individuals will drop it for something more novel or more intriguing. These people are popular and quick to acquire new skills but, as a result, are sometimes content with superficial knowledge and halfway results. They are, nevertheless, clever individuals and can easily cover or excuse their faults without ever intending to correct them. There is a natural talent in Gemini natives for driving a good bargain and while they may be primarily looking out for themselves, they are usually very helpful to others, often giving them ideas and offering them opportunities. In short, due to an insatiable urge to invade new territory, the Gemini individual tends to be free with what he or she does not need or want and may frequently neglect or reject much that could be useful and/or valuable.
Experience means little or nothing to Gemini subjects. They feel sure of themselves without it and on occasion, achievement of ambition may be a prelude to disappointment. Thus, Gemini individuals should use will power to curb the inherent scattering of activity, or it will tell upon them and deny them the contentment that should reward their efforts. If those who fall under the jurisdiction of Gemini are able to find the right niche and concentrate upon that goal, then they are more likely to find happiness. However, Gemini natives are prone to being unconventional and skeptical, possessing the habit of blowing hot and then cold. The friendly attitude of such people may shift to mistrust if problems are encountered, and their keen foresight may suffer through over-enthusiasm, which could lead to allowing real opportunities to languish while they pursue something else. Above all, Gemini natives should never waste what has been gained, for each success is pictured as a building block to something bigger and often, the obstacles that could ruin such hopes are overlooked. In short, those governed by Gemini should make the most of it while they can and remember that alhough they have been born under two lucky stars (instead of just one, like most others), this double luck can run out and result in nothing.
Mercury (Gemini's ruling planet) makes the Gemini personality dominate the looks of such individuals and they possess a fundamental attraction that is sometimes translated as personality, sometimes sex-appeal and sometimes leadership. Mercury is also responsible for Gemini's love of travel...new places, new people and new scenes all appeal to the Gemini individual as much as do new ideas. Gemini subjects receive stimulation from the world around them...rather like a butterfly which reaches out its sensitive antennae. This is transposed by Gemini (for the benefit of others less fortunate) into words, descriptions and joyful gossip. However, it is important for Gemini individuals to be in touch with those who understand them. If not, then there is a tendency to wilt and undergo an intellectual suffering that few will be able to fully comprehend. Gemini's reach for the perfect human relationship will probably mean that such an individual is constantly disappointed until he or she realizes that there truly is no such thing as a "perfect relationship." Indeed, it may be Gemini's secret fear that he or she will never find a true "soul-mate" for life.
Perhaps the worst fault of a Gemini individual is to shirk responsibility. There is a tendency here to want everything to go smoothly and according to plan without any personal effort. The emotions of Gemini natives can lead to exhaustion and worry without actually getting on with the job. The greatest Gemini talent is the effect this character has on others...and he or she must always be in contact with others. Gemini individuals need constant feedback for the good of their souls. While disappointment in the reactions of others may make Gemini natives sulk for a period of time, they do not harbor a grudge and so tend to keep their wide circle of friends. In addition, Gemini individuals usually have a very good vocabulary and an originality of expression when talking, coupled with an amusingly biased outlook on varying human situations. With regard to serious issues, however, Gemini is invariably scrupulously fair and unbiased. Those born under this Zodiac Sign should follow their twin stars by keeping the wide range of their interests alive. It is important that no stagnation be allowed to occur. It is also important for Gemini natives to curb the temptation to dissipate energy through having too many trivial interests and becoming disorganized...notes should be kept, lists should be composed and plans should be carefully laid. Unfortunately, this is often difficult for the mercurial-natured Gemini individual to accomplish.
In business, Gemini persons fit almost anywhere. They are good salesmen, promoters and often successful speculators. They do equally as well in advertising, publishing, television, transportation and other fields where they must keep up with modern trends. As teachers, writers, artists and politicians, Gemini individuals possess both the right attitude and aptitute to succeed. In business associations, Gemini tends to work well with Taurus, for persons born under that Sign of the Zodiac are usually receptive to Gemini notions and will have the stamina to see them through. The balanced nature of Libra and the straight-shooting qualities of Sagittarius make both of these Signs good business partners for those governed by Gemini. One of the strongest business combinations, however, is that of versatile Gemini and conservative Cancer since, in this instance, the latter serves strictly as a counter-balance rather than a "drag."
~ Phlox A Journey, until she stops somwhere...
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