How to be a Better Husband/Boyfriend

I found this among of my note papers near my puter.. I normally will jots down some websites, quotes & tips while browsing. I can't really remember from which website that I extract this article, these are the tips given :

1. Be spontaneous (and I love surprises too.. )
2. Spot small changes on her, e.g. highlight on the hair, new earrings, or she has loose some weight (oohh.. I wud appreciate that)
3. Complement her evry now & then (I love complement too..)
4. Challenge her to motivate for the better (errkk.. I hate d challenge !!)
5. Remind her of her beauty or specialty by sending cards, emails or little note (oohhh.. that's sweet !!)

~ Phlox A Journey, until she stops somwhere...